-: Shopping whether you love it
or just wanna get it over with, you might be wondering how
to approach it when you can't easily
see what's on the shelf.
In this episode, Lisa Salinger and Tiffany
and Mpofu join us as we discuss strategies
for making shopping efficient and enjoyable.
I'm Ricky Enger, and this is Hadley Presents.
Welcome to the show. Wow, this is exciting. Yes, it is.
-: It's good to be here. I'm definitely in the,
I love shopping.
Well, it, I guess it depends on the circumstances,
-: You know, that's actually a good way
to introduce ourselves.
So we'll start with you Tiffany.
Let's put a name to a voice
and tell us how you feel in general about shopping.
-: Yes, I'm Tiffany Mpofu and I love shopping.
Listen, there's nothing like a good shoe in a good deal,
so, and
-: Lisa, how about you?
-: I'm not terribly about having a lot of possessions,
but having said that, I'm one of those people
that feels like you can never have too many bags.
I enjoy shopping.
I would rather shop online, I think
because I can take all the time I want to read if it's food,
read ingredients
or product care, all, you know, reviews,
all kinds of things like that.
-: And I think I'm somewhere in the middle.
So I too love shopping.
I love going online, reading all the ingredients
or getting a description of the clothing item,
but I also don't mind walking
around in a store if it's the right day
and I'm in the right mood.
You know, there's nothing like walking by the deli
and going, oh, that smells good.
I wanna go get whatever that is.
Or trying on shoes like Tiffany
or feeling the texture of a piece of clothing
and saying, yeah, that might be stylish,
but there's no way I want that.
Or vice versa.
So for all of us, shopping is fun to some degree.
And really, there's no wrong way to shop
or to think about shopping.
The only wrong way is doing it in such a way
where you feel frustrated or you feel overwhelmed
and you start to dread it.
So I think that figuring out
that best approach is why we're here.
And just kind of taking into account
how people wanna approach it, what they like,
what they don't like.
And you know, for some people they don't like technology
much, but still have
to get some shopping done.
So if you don't like technology,
are there some ways that you can approach this
that don't require too much technology,
but you can still get what you need to do done?
-: Yes, and that is going
to be like getting shopping assistance from a
store employee.
You would call ahead to ask for assistance
and schedule a a time for your shopping trip
and find out, especially when it comes to grocery shopping,
find out when the store is going to be less crowded.
Usually mornings are less crowded than the
weekends or evenings.
-: I know produce is one of those things
that people can be really picky about.
I want the best produce,
or even expiration dates on milk.
I've been in situations
where someone puts something in the cart
and it's expiring that day.
So it's like, ask those questions, right? Yes.
-: I usually shop through Instacart
and I love trying new things.
So I get one or two items and I, I find the boxes
or the packaging and I think, what the heck is this?
What did I order? And then I've gotta go through my list.
But if you're in person, touching it
before it goes in your cart is really helpful.
You can also shop with friends or family members.
Maybe you can get a volunteer shopper
through a blind association, a church, a civic organization.
The nice thing I think about shopping with someone you know,
or you get to know in a volunteer situation is
they can kind of learn what your tastes are.
So, you know, maybe they know that you love fruit
and they, you know, oh they have a big promotional display,
you know, with a lot of fruit.
I also think one of the most helpful
and considerate things you can do for the person
who is helping you shop
and for yourself too, I guess for that matter, is
to make a list
but make it in a format that's accessible
for the person who is helping you.
So maybe you write it on a computer and you print it,
or maybe you have large print supplies
and you make a large print list.
Because if they can see the whole picture,
you are not having to backtrack constantly.
And with some of the stores being as big as they are,
that's kind of a major undertaking.
-: Yeah, and I also wanted to add
that checking your senior center can also be a way
to find a volunteer to help with shopping as well.
But with the grocery list, for instance, using large print
and using bold line paper can help,
or even using a different color
of paper like yellow, to give that contrast
between the marker
and the paper so that it's a bit easier
to see using like a bow tip marker.
And actually we do have a workshop called taking notes
that has some really great tips, a about taking notes
or making lists.
-: So that's a really good point.
Tiffany is having your grocery list in a format
that's accessible to you as well as the person
that you're shopping with.
So if you're writing in large print, you know both
of you will be able
to see it if you do have some sight still
and the person with you does as well,
if you have a voice recorder, you can do that.
So you're kind of going through marking things off
and maybe you've printed out something
for the person that you're with.
Also, what about looking at
prices on things?
If you're in person, I know that can get kind
of awkward if you're with someone
that you don't know especially,
and that discussion of money comes up
and you feel like you're asking every 30 seconds or so.
And how much is that?
Are there ways that you can get
that information if you're in person,
maybe it is asking the person that you're with.
Are there other ways too?
-: Yeah, using a a magnifier to view like labels
and price tag can be a, a great way to get that information.
And also too, another type
of maybe hands-free situation is to put like a,
a cord connected to like a lanyard
or a cord to place around your neck so that
as you're picking up items, your hands are kind of free
and you can use your magnifier to view labels
and price tags.
-: That's really great.
And we do have workshops on the different types
of magnifiers too, and we'll put that in the show notes.
And you know, one thing we didn't talk about when it comes
to doing this without technology is that not everywhere,
but in some places there are stores
that will allow you
to just call on the phone and place your order.
Some of them will deliver,
and for some of them you'll have to arrange transportation
to go and pick it up.
But the apps that we're about to talk about, you know,
we're gonna dive into technology a little bit.
That's not the only way to kind
of get a nice big bulk order without having to walk around
with someone against some of those stores.
It's worth calling to ask, do you provide this service?
-: And sometimes it's the stores you don't expect
that have it.
In one of the places where I lived, there was a little mom
and pop shop that delivered and that was really helpful.
-: So we keep mentioning apps in a roundabout way.
I know that all tend to use them.
And it's no surprise we are all tech people
and not everyone is.
But maybe if you are listening
and you're comfortable using technology,
or maybe that is actually the motivation
for learning your technology, getting a little better
with it is, hey, I could use this to shop.
I think it helps to know what tools are available for that
and kind of how they work.
So I think we can start then with grocery shopping apps.
So there are multiple things we can do with technology
outside these apps,
but we might as well talk about those first.
I know that shipped is one of them
and they own Target or Target owns them
or something, but they do provide things
outside Target too.
So there are multiple stores that shipped will let you do,
there's Instacart,
there's Walmart Grocery, there's a few others.
Tiffany, what do you tend to use?
-: Actually, I use both Shipped and Instacart just
because they have different stores that I like to shop from.
So for Ship, my local grocery store here is Meyer,
so I would use Ship for Meyer
and then Instacart for Sam's Club.
I also use DoorDash too
because they do have a grocery section just
for some quick things, not to do a huge grocery hall,
but if I just need a few items,
I'll use DoorDash as well.
-: And Lisa, I think you tend to use Instacart most, right?
-: I do. I have used Shipped,
but I find in my area, Instacart offers me access
to 50 some stores I think, and shipped has about seven.
So I can get the wholesale clubs,
I can get a lot of variety.
Tiffany made a good point about ordering through DoorDash
because you can also order groceries through Uber Eats
and now you can order restaurant
delivery through Instacart.
So I feel like there is some merging there.
-: And I think it depends on the area
that you're in too, right?
Yeah. So here Shipped has probably just as many stores
and some of them are unique to shipped
and vice versa with Instacart.
But in some areas, like with you Lisa, it's clear
that Instacart is probably the better pick
because one stop shopping, so to speak.
-: Yeah, yeah. And I would say, you know,
consider all your options
because I've had discussions with people
before about Instacart, just as an example.
This could apply to any of them
and they say, oh, I hate the app, I'd never use it.
But I love using the computer.
I've, I think I've ever gone to Instacart on my computer.
I always do it on my phone.
And so if one really isn't resonating with you,
you can try others.
-: That is so true,
because for me, when I do my online shopping,
I love using the computer because my screen is larger.
I can get the items as large as I need it to see the labels
and to read the nutritional facts
and all of that kind of stuff.
So yeah, that that's really true.
-: And you bring up a good point, Tiffany, which is
that it's not just about adding the stuff
to your cart, right?
You can access other
information beyond just
what is available in the store and how much it costs.
You can get that nutritional info or the ingredients list
or even how to prepare some of that stuff, right?
I know you do this a lot, Lisa too.
-: Yeah. Like how long do you microwave this or that?
And the other thing is, you know,
you might consider getting one of these apps
even if you never spend a dime in it
because you could look through and see what they have.
And I use mine as
a shopping list of sorts.
So I know I have some things I need to get from Costco
and I have some things I need to get from Giant,
which is my local supermarket.
And so I have two different quote carts going in Instacart.
And if I think of something I need, I can just add it.
But let's say someone calls you
and says, Hey, do you wanna go shopping today?
I can be there in a half an hour.
Well, if you've already made a list, then you don't have
to do the hurry scurry thing,
and the app is just another way.
-: You for some reason decide
that shopping from your recliner is still not the thing you
wanna do and you wanna go out.
I think that technology can still be useful
in those situations.
Like Lisa gave the example,
you have gotten your list together,
even if someone is coming
and gonna go shopping with you, you've kind
of made your list in Instacart.
Are there other ways
that technology can be used if you're shopping
in person?
Tiffany, can you talk about maybe things that you've done
with your smartphone?
Because I know you've taken your smartphone when shopping
and there's probably a lot of ways
that you use it when you're in person.
-: For the most part, what I do is I use a magnifier
app on my phone.
So when I go in the store, I'll take out my phone
and what's great about it, I don't have a thousand devices
with me, I just have my phone.
So then I'm able to read the sizes of clothing,
I can know what the price is and all of that great stuff.
-: I feel like my use
of technology starts when I get my groceries
because I've got seven cans
and which ones are the chickpeas
and which ones are the Mandarin oranges.
And so I use a variety of apps.
Probably the one I use most is seeing ai.
And just another quick aside,
Hadley does have workshops on how to use this app
and you can use it for a number of things.
And one of them is to identify products.
-: Speaking of identifying products, we've gotten a lot
of calls over the past year or so on meta glasses.
So these you could use in the store
or when you get home, one thing that you can do
with them is hold up a product
and say, Hey, meta, what product am I holding
or what am I holding?
And it will use a combination of trying
to recognize the logo
or maybe it sees some text on the packaging.
So it's kind of putting all of those things together
to make an educated guess about this is
probably what you're holding.
They also will give you the ability
to call a human to look through the camera, whether
that is be my eyes, who can do that on a volunteer basis,
or whether it's ira, which is a paid service.
And you've got someone who's kind of trained to work
with blind and low vision people on
the other end of the phone.
And you can have them essentially walk virtually
alongside you,
or you just call them briefly when you need something
through those hands-free meta glasses.
I do think it's important though.
We've talked a lot about these different things
that you can do using your magnifier to look at a price tag
or using seeing AI to scan a barcode or read the text
or using meta glasses to identify stuff.
Those things can work really well.
I do think it's important to practice with them a bit
and kind of think through your scenario.
Because often when I'm talking to people,
and I bet the two of you have had calls like this too,
we say, yes, the meta glasses are really helpful,
or seeing AI is really helpful
and the person's getting very excited.
You know, this is going to give me so much freedom
and so much independence.
And then when we sort of walk through the scenario
and the person's like, so I can walk in
and I've got 40 items on my list,
and meta can help me find all of these things,
technically yes.
But if you're thinking about saying, Hey meta,
what am I holding?
And you're doing that 40 times at a minimum, is
that okay for you?
Do you feel like you are having fun?
Do you feel like you're empowered doing that?
Or does that become overwhelming in its own way?
-: And there is the whole thing too
that it does sometimes get things wrong.
I had a can and I asked the meta glasses what I was holding,
and it told me I was holding beef stew.
Well, I will never buy beef stew in a can.
It was another equally junky food.
It was a can of corn beef hash.
And I did get that when I asked again,
but when it said beef stew, I thought, oh,
I bet it's going off the picture.
I bet this is the hash.
But in the store if it says it's beef stew,
you don't really know unless you do it more than once.
And just a reminder to those who have never had sight,
I can't tell you how many times I get
really awful results from the meta glasses are
seeing ai.
And then I have to remind myself, oh yeah,
you have no light on in here.
You need to turn on the light so
that the camera has something to work
with while you're identifying your groceries.
-: Yes, don't, don't keep your camera in the dark.
So a lot of what we focused on is grocery shopping,
and I think that's because it's one of those
that happens every few days, whether you wish it did or not,
but it's definitely not the only kind of shopping
that we do.
So I do wanna just touch a little bit on those other kinds
of shopping, like Tiffany,
when your closet is feeling a little bit empty
and there's that spot for just one more pair of shoes,
how can we approach clothing shopping?
Because that's its own thing where there might be questions
of style as well as questions of price and color
and just finding something in all these
racks and racks of clothing.
So what are some ways that we can do that sort
of shopping still in a way that's going to work for us?
-: Sure. Yeah. So one way, just like grocery shopping, is
to call ahead for a personal shopper.
So if you have a a favorite retail store,
maybe a new store you wanna try, just call them
and ask if you can request a personal shopper
and schedule a time.
And so that person can help even like describe pieces
of clothing, like the pattern or the color.
One time before I went out shopping
and I tried it on and asked how it looked on me
and they were like, oh, it looks nice.
-: Yeah, I love that approach,
especially if you are thinking, yeah,
but I don't really have anyone to go with me.
These stores actually,
per personal shopping is a service that isn't just
for people who are having trouble seeing things in
the same way they used to.
Or maybe you've never seen anything.
So my husband likes to say about himself, he's like,
I'm not just visually impaired, I'm style impaired.
And I think that's true for a lot of people, regardless of
who you are, it's a thing they, they enjoy doing
and that's exactly what they're there for.
-: I'm a little bit of a paranoid clothes shopper.
You can have two pieces of clothing
where the fabric feel identical
and one of them looks great on you,
and the other one shows every flaw and they,
but they feel exactly the same.
And so that's frustrating to me.
So what I've done, if I can, I try to shop with somebody.
I know if I can't
and I'm working with a personal shopper, I make sure
to save my receipts.
You know, maybe label them, put them in an envelope
until I can try on the clothes for someone
whose opinion I trust.
And so that's how I do that.
The other thing is I have pants
that are comfortable and they work.
And so I have the style number
and the lot number written down.
And when they die
or if my size changes, I can just go online
because I have that info.
Now I don't feel like that works
for all your clothes shopping.
'cause you know, you do want things that look different,
but you know, for a lot of the staples,
that's a good possibility too.
-: Yeah, and I love that idea, Lisa,
because I'm vertically challenged.
Oh yeah. So when I find a really
great pair of pants that the cut is nice, it it,
it just fits perfectly.
Having that information to go online
and purchase more of those is, is really helpful.
-: Well, this has been a lot of fun
and I think we could talk about shopping all day,
because again, turns out we enjoy it.
But I hope that for even those of you
who don't love shopping, maybe you've picked up some tips
and tricks from us.
And regardless of how you choose to it, whether it's online,
whether it's with someone, whether it's calling
that senior center to see if they're volunteers
or some combination of all of those, I think it's great
to have as many tools in your toolbox as you can.
We've mentioned a number of different things
and you'll find those in our show notes.
So some links to Hadley workshops on grocery shopping
and taking notes and seeing AI
and all of those things you'll find there.
Well, thank you both so much
for spending a little time talking about shopping.
I'm suddenly in the mood for a new pair of shoes.
Hey, so maybe at the end of this recording,
I'm gonna make that happen.
It's been wonderful.
Thank you both again, and thank you all for listening.
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